Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas or Happy New Year...

 from US to YOU!!!

We decided not to stress about our Christmas cards this year!!!  So--this is your Christmas card!  It's not that we don't love and appreciate all our friends and family that we would send them to.  We just ran out of time this year and I have learned over the past few years not to stress about little things... like if we got Christmas cards out or not!!!  It's more important to play with our kids and have FUN than stress over silly things!  There are enough BIG things in life to stress about.... I am NOT going to stress over a Christmas card!!!


We had a wonderful Christmas!  We are so blessed.  Blessed beyond words.


Today we went to a friend's dad's funeral. As most funerals do, it makes you think about what is important.  It makes you grateful for your parents, and family, and friends!!!  We are BLESSED to have all 4 of our parents close to us to enjoy the holidays with and have them involved in the kids' every activity!!!  


We could not imagine losing one of our parents!  I pray that will not be for a long, long time!!


We are remembering to be GRATEFUL for what we do have.  Things might not always be as we would WISH, but we have so much to be THANKFUL for!   We are looking forward to what 2011 is going to bring us and what we will LEARN and grow from this year!!


For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you. .. Jeremiah 29:11

Dancing for Santa

Paige's first "recital"

Dancing for Santa--at the YMCA!

The cutest Snowflake of them all!!

And, every dancer gets FLOWERS after a recital---

well, really I think only 1 other girl got flowers!!

Thanks Grandma Roth!  Paige got to put her flowers in her room on her dresser and 

thought that was so cool.

This "recital" consisted of 1, 20 second dance!  But, none the less.  Paige had fun!!!

Jaden's Program

10:45am Kindergarten Christmas Program

11:00am Christmas PARTY in the classroom

This is Jaden's Christmas cookie he decorated himself.  

He only ate 1/2 of it---I think it was TOO SWEET for him!!!

What to wear??  Red or Green??

A note home said kids should wear RED for their program-- if they had it.  

Jaden came home and said they were told they could wear RED OR GREEN.

Good for us, because Jaden didn't have a red shirt, of any kind.

I get to school early, the day of the program,

 (Because I am the room mom and had to set up, etc.)

I see a SEA OF RED and then Jaden in his Green sweater.

Jaden was PRECIOUS CUTE, but literally the only student  wearing Green, in his class.

So, as any good mom would do...I called DAD!!!  HELP!!!  We need a RED Shirt!!

SO---Steve ran to Target and bought the only 3 shirts they had in Jaden's sizes.

I pick the one I like best.  

(In the back of my mind, I am thinking Jaden probably won't even care and

 will want to keep his sweater on.)

I pulled Jaden aside and said, "hey, Dad brought you a red shirt if you want to put it on so you match all the other kids."

"NO!  I I like this," was Jaden's comment!  without any hesitation or 2nd thought!

REALLY??  Did he not notice he was the ONLY KID in GREEN!!!!

So---he stayed in his super cute Green Sweater.  It is easier to find him this way in the pictures!  So, I guess I hope Jaden will always have the self-confidence and not care about what 

"everyone else is doing"----like his mom does!!!!

The Last Preschool Christmas program

It's sad to say.... This is our LAST Pre-School Christmas Program!

They're all growing up!

At Home---before we left for school

When Paige walked into the auditorium she was wearing an angel robe!  My first thought was, 

oh...she gets to be an angel.  My 2nd thought was...OH....her cute outfit is covered up!!

A few songs with the Angel Robes---then they came off.

Merry Christmas!!!  

A Candle Light Dinner

With only 8 days til Jesus' Birthday---

We decided to have a CANDLELIGHT DINNER!!

A couple of my friends have done this in previous years as part of their count-down to Christmas, but we have never braved it!!

And I'm so glad we did tonight!

**Yes, I know my table is not fancy!  But, I didn't think a centerpiece or table decorations were a good idea with candles!  And, this was probably a smart call on my part.  The toasting kept the kids quite busy picking up their glasses, putting them down, toasting across the table, over the fire, putting glasses down, and on and on.  Maybe in a few years we can add a fancy centerpiece**

It was SO FUN!!  We had the kids go to their rooms until we were ready.

We "called their number" when their reservation was ready!

They couldn't believe the lights were OUT.  They couldn't believe we were eating at the "real table".  (We always eat around our huge island).

So---what goes into a candle-light dinner....or a FANCY DINNER.

Fancy plates --our Christmas plates---not our plastic plates or paper plates

Fancy cups---GLASS CUPS, oh  my....

Wine and wine glasses---or Sparkling Grape Juice

Toasts --and lots of them

Dessert---and Fancy dessert---we had brownies cut in shapes of Christmas trees

(We never have dessert right after dinner....so this was a treat!) and...

A chocolate treat by your fork when you sit down

OH---and at a FANCY DINNER you have you use a quiet voice

---this was the best part of the night!!

and what was for dinner??  Nothing Fancy...

Biscuits and Gravy!  Funny huh!  But, it was already on our menu for tonight and we KNEW the kids would all eat it, no complaints, no struggles.  And, we were right.  

There were LOTS of SMILES this evening!!

"I'd like to make a toast...."

This was the cutest part of the night...

we toasted to our awesome family, to Jesus' birthday, to the lights being off, I can't remember what all, but it was FUN TO MAKE TOASTS with our FANCY GLASSES!!

I love these Christmas wine glasses and I don't even really use them---they are more for decoration---if I get them out.  So, I decided I would let the kids use them.  I gave myself (and Steve) a little pep talk in case they did break the glasses.  We were NOT going to be upset!

BUT---no breakage.  There really wasn't even a close call.

Sparkling Grape Juice.  $3.  Jaden wouldn't try it--that is SO Jaden, nothing unusual or different for him. Paige didn't like it.  Tyler liked it the next day when it wasn't so bubbly.  Tyler did keep his in his cup and did drink it for the toasts.  Jaden and Paige had water in their "wine glasses".  But, it was cool to hold the new cups!

We started out just toasting those close to us.

Then, Jaden starting walking around the table so he could toast EVERYONE!!!

It was so fun.  We will for sure do this again---and probably before next year's countdown to Christmas.  The kids loved it.  When they read.... "Have a Candlelight Dinner" on their countdown strip...they had no idea what it meant!

YEA!!!!  For Countdown to Jesus's Birthday!!

AND---I have decided that I know a night was a success when one of the kids prays about it at night.  Jaden's prayer was.....

And, thank you that we could turn out the lights and eat with the candles tonight!!

And Paige said...

Thank you for, what was that called tonight mom, (I tell her) 

oh yea..thank you for our candlelight dinner!!

SUCCESS!!!!  

We did great getting our Christmas decorations out this year!

We did it the day after Thanksgiving--I think!

Last year our house was on a holiday home tour---which was A LOT of work.

This year we didn't even put out all our decorations.  

I am leaving Jan. 2nd to head to Michigan for 4 days and didn't know WHEN the decorations would come down---so I thought less is more this year.

On a side note---Steve was just as into decorating the house as I was.  He wanted more up than I did.  I would say, "I wasn't going to put that up this year" several times and he would just shrug his shoulders or say, "it's not that hard to do"!  It makes me happy that he likes all our decorations too!!

Our tree!

I love our Christmas tree!!

The one upstairs is a "pretty" tree!

As kids are making ornaments and such from school, we will have a 2nd tree in the basement

with all of our SPECIAL ornaments!!  

These snowmen are NEW to our house. I bought them after Christmas last year! 

 I think they are SO CUTE!  

I used the sled up where the snowmen are this year---

so another new arrangement, with old things!

This sled is the sled I used  when I was a kid!!!

Our count-down to Christmas!

I made this countdown calendar at least 8 years ago....

I think it was before I had Tyler! 

I have had to re-glue a few of the pieces, but it is holding up well still!!

And our favorite Christmas tradition!!

The Christmas chain with something "fun" to do each night as we count down 'til Christmas!

This year we were smart enough to color code the rings.

Red is Paige

Green is Jaden

White is Tyler

Then there is no fighting over who's turn it is to cut the chain.  And, whoever cuts the chain

also gets to take the piece off the other calendar!!

What we've done so far on our rings:

Shop for our angel tree gifts

**This year we adoped 3 kids off the angel tree at church, around our kids' ages.  We all went to Wal-mart and only bought stuff for these kids.  Our kids took their billfolds and each bought 1 of the toys for the boy/girl they adopted!  This was awesome!  They used their own money, paid themselves, got the change back, etc.  I think it really helped them realize these gifts cost money!  And all of their gifts they get, cost money!

 We will for sure do it again this way from now on.**

Read a Christmas book

Make Christmas ornaments

Read the Christmas story out of the Bible

**This was so cute---we asked the kids if they knew where in the Bible the Christmas story was found.  Tyler got his bible and was looking and Paige kept saying, "Luke 2:11"  She kept saying this over and over and we just kept ignoring her because well....Paige talks A LOT"

So---Steve and Tyler took turns reading the story from the Bible and sure enough we come across the verse Paige has been repeatedly saying....

She said, "That's the verse..."

She had been learning it in Pre-school this week!

Well, at least I know our money is being well spent at Pre-school!!

Write a letter to Santa

Make cards for someone else

Go look at Christmas lights

Go get Ice-Cream

Watch a Christmas movie

Spend the night at Grandpa and Grandpas (mom and dad's favorite so far!)

Go see Santa

Tonights was Sleep under the Christmas Tree --  

or in the same room as the Christmas tree!

So---as you can see---we have been BUSY here at our house!  But, it's FUN and these things make us remember to spend time as a FAMILY having FUN 

during the hustle and bustle of the holidays.

Fall Football

Last month the boys had a day off of school

So--what did they spend their day doing....

PLAYING FOOTBALL!!

The 2 boys always play against each other.

They pick a team they want to be and as they would say, "they verse (as in versus) each other"

Well, this day, they decided they were going to have a "REAL GAME" and

have other people come watch the game.

So---the set up began.  

Signs were made!!

They made 2 large signs.  This one above, was hung on the deck off the SIDE of the house

so cars coming by could see the sign and know there was a game at 4pm.

Then, another sign was hung on the BACK of the deck so the neighbors behind us could

see the game information.

These boys 150% thought people would read their signs and show up at 4pm for the game.

They started getting ready for the game late morning and I told them the game had to be at 4pm---after naps!  

They even got ALL the chairs from the backyard and VERY NEATLY lined them up!

They kept asking what we would do if more people came than we had chairs.

I tried to explain that we would have enough chairs.

Actually, I tried to explain that it might just be me and Paige watching the game.  

I didn't want them to be heart-broken when no one showed up.

BUT---they assured me....people would come!!!!!!!

SO---what does a mom do in this instance??????

YOU CALL THE NEIGHBORS!!!!!!!!

Actually, I just called Becky and told her she needed to come over with her girls (including a 2 month old baby) at 4pm for the big game.  It was important!  And, she of course understood the importance! I instructed her not to tell my boys that I had called, but to say she saw the signs!!!

Well, at 4pm here comes Becky and the girls!!!  How exciting!!!

BUT, Kari had also "seen the signs", (thanks to Becky) and her and 3 of her kids came over too!

Tyler and Jaden were SO EXCITED!!!!!

The chairs were FULL!!!!  People really did see their signs!!!!

It was a great afternoon.  The moms talked--while watching the big game of course--

and enjoyed the beautiful day.  

Had it not been for the "big game" we would have all stayed inside!!

Kari's son Josh played in the big game too.  

He was "all time quarterback" for awhile and then maybe ref for part of the time?

It was a FUN afternoon with lots of IMAGINATION used!!

What a fun day off of school!!!